Part of TBB’s curriculum is to have students present a culminating project about a topic researched over the span of Thailand, Cambodia, and India. My friend Eva and I decided to focus on Sexuality, Relationships, and HIV/AIDs. It has been interesting to interview villagers in Don Jiang, Thailand about their exposure to sex ed in school and their openness to homosexuality. In Cambodia, we learned that Buddhists believe that homosexuality comes from too much greed. Interesting….
In India we have focused on gender-based violence as well as arranged marriage issues.
In India, I have been teaching the cutest boys some Maths and English. Yeah, in India they call math maths. These boys are so eager to learn! We have played hangman about countries and colors and animals. We have played addition, subtraction, and multiplication games with simple numbers like 10 and 4. Here is a picture of the boys 🙂
We also were lucky enough to go to Agra, Uttar Pradesh this past weekend. This is the place of the Taj Mahal. We learned a bit of the monument’s history. The king of the Mogul Empire, Shah Jahan, had a wife who he loved so much that when she died giving birth to their 14th child, he decided to build the prettiest shrine as a graveyard for her tomb.
I cant believe I am heading back to the States in just 10 short days. Bittersweet!
Before taking off for Delhi, I had a moment of sudden realization. I realized that I had no idea what to expect, going into a country populated with 1.2 billion people. Just from seeing Slumdog Millionaire, I had a bit of an idea. India has surpassed anything I could’ve ever imagined. I am staying at a host family about 30 minutes away from the school that I am volunteering at called Vidya Papparanka. My host family is Sikh, which is so interesting to learn more about. At school, I have been teaching 6 2nd grade boys maths and english. They are so eager to learn, and for that im eternally grateful. I feel so in my element – and cant believe that in just over a month I’ll be reunited back with my family and saying bye to my TBB sisters!
What a week it’s been! On the 25th, we had to say goodbye to our beloved host families. My host mom, Mae, began tearing up as we hugged goodbye. I will miss her so dearly! Our host brother even took off work that morning at the chicken coop to say goodbye to Dylan and I.
We spent 2 very quick days back in Chiang Mai, then headed to the beautiful country of Cambodia!
Here we have visited:
Phnom Penh, Kampong, and Siam Reap
Killing fields from the Khmer Rouge genocide (1960s to 1980s… startlingly recent)
Khmer Genocide Museum (a school-turned-prison for Cambodians punished for being intellectuals and many times sentenced to death.)
A after school organization with smiley Cambodian 6,7 and 8 year olds. We had a dance party, to songs like ‘Sexy and I Know It’ and ‘Now Watch Me Whip’. The kids knew more of the words than any of us Americans did. Globalization at its finest.
A Buddhist Temple, with 3 monks, aged 65, 67, 72 who survived through the Khmer Rouge Genocide
Through our tour guide, we found out that these men were forced to work in agricultural fields. When the Khmer Rouge authorities selected people to execute, they first searched for the intellectuals of the country. These intellectuals could be former doctors, teachers, lawyers… any white collar occupation. Luckily for these 3 soon-to-be-monks, the fact that farming was considered a ‘low level, peasant job’, no Khmer Rouge infantrymen thought they were worth assassinating. These men were incredibly interesting to speak to.
In Buddhism, when you arrive at a temple, you sit on your knees and bend down 3, 5, or 7 times. It’s always these odd numbers. Buddhists believe in respecting all animals as their own. Buddhists believe also that the main root of human suffering comes from the greed we have. The greed for material possessions, for the love of another person, to succeed in our jobs…. These monks train their minds to hopefully someday reach nirvana by following their good karma. Monks are not supposed to even look a woman in the eye, let alone touch a woman. It is an incredibly strict discipline.
Monk’s food and clothes are all made through donations or offerings.
We witnessed the Buddhist Full Moon festival, and saw many Khmer families lighting an orange lantern into the sky as a form of good luck.In the lanterns, food and money were put in. Perfect photo op moment! The only sad, sobering part was when we saw a group of boys using a net to gather the lamps and steal the money and food off of it for themselves.
Angkor Wat, Angkor Tom, and the Angkor Jungle
Angkor Wat was the king’s palace, built over 900 years ago. It was magical seeing the beautiful carvings on each of the walls, depicting Hindu and Buddhist gods. One of the murals depicted a woman, being punished for having an abortion – and thus, in afterlife, being subjected to having needles injected in her body from head to toe. From the looks of it, abortion is uncommon here, and the divorce rate is at a strikingly low 3-5%.
Angkor Tom was equally breathtaking. Originally, 57 statues were made to depict statues of humans feeling happy, sad, creepy, embarrassed, or plotting something. Here’s a visual… This is a happy statue. Still gave me the creeps a bit.
No one was allowed to visit the Angkor Wat or the Angkor Tom without covering their shoulders and legs. It is incredibly disrespectful to be in a place of such historical times to dress promiscuously. Even going to Angkor Wat, an employee told me to take my cap off to show respect.
A Phare circus performed by poor Cambodian youth
a school’s organization takes in performing arts scholars and pays for their uniforms, books, and education free of charge. These students are immersed with opportunities to excel in music, dance, circus, and drama. These guys performed a play called ‘Chills’. It was about students who were haunted by ghosts (sounds lame but was honestly insanely good). Guys could put legs over their heads, could juggle 5 bowling balls at once, could balance all 7 of them on top of one another…. It was honestly so spectacular. At the end, we could give donations if we were really moved… Anything helps! I gave 2 dollars. Here’s a link to their Chills Show:
A few days ago, we went to an elephant farm. Here, we rode elephants bare back (which is much better for their spines when compared to riding a saddle). In the morning, we practiced getting on the elephants, which definitely took time! Then we took a walk down a scenic path through the village, had lunch, then trekked in the jungle and through the river with our elephants. Mine was named NoNing – she was precious! Then, we got to get into the river and wash off our elephants. They were such friendly creatures! It was a day I’ll truly never forget.
Just got done with a solid 3 weeks in Ban Don Jiang, Thailand. Don Jiang is an organic agriculture village. I stayed with my Mae (mom), Paw (dad), and PiLong (older host brother) in their home. My host family grows rice, cabbage, mangoes, guava, papaya, and they also have two cows! Truly every part of their farm is sustainable – they use the manure from the cows as a natural fertilizer on the fields. No pesticides necessary!
I had such a blast learning a little more Thai and also staying with such friendly, smiling people. I will miss them so so so much.
I am back in Chiang Mai until Sunday – then off to Cambodia to tour the Angkor Wat Temples!
The girls took a trip to a drag show in Chiang Mai last week. During a cowgirl number, the lead ‘singer’ came into the crowd, took me onstage, and had me dance in front of the whole audience. It was incredibly embarrassing, but also amazing. I have photographic proof! These ladies were workin it all night long. Bucket list item crossed off!